Reality bites

Milo just started school last June, and two weeks into classes, his adviser called me for a short conference. Apparently, he's having quite a challenge adjusting to the rigid school structure (he is so used to unstructured play) and needs additional guidance at home. It was my first inkling that there would be struggles ahead when it came to Milo's education. A month later, I was still getting called to school. I consulted my pediatrician about other behavioral reinforcements that I could try, and she suggested that I bring him to an occupational therapist. We are going onto our third session with the OT and so far, we are seeing opportunities to reinforce correct behavior in ways that Milo will be receptive to. The OT also explained that his hyperactiveness, impulsiveness and lack of focus would really be highlighted in such a traditional school setting... I guess it's time to explore progressive educational institutions in the area as well. In Milo's first two years of life, I really was the proud parent, ever defensive of even the slightest criticism, basically convincing myself that Milo could do no wrong. But in doing so, I have done wrong by him, and now it's time to take a hard stand on his behavior. Hopefully, with time, effort and consistency, we'll be able to correct this and help Milo assimilate better into student life. It's a humbling experience to go through this, and I am thankful for my supportive husband and family who assure me that things will be ok. Most of all, I am thankful that Jess has let his kindness and Grace shine through all the preoccupations in my life, and slowly but surely find its way to my heart.